filing for divorce

any advice? a fren caught in such situation. she's clearing her husband's debt everymonth and he keep swiping her credit cards and causing her all the debt she could no longer bear... before filing for divorce is ther any other solution out there that can help her???

hello... the lady just need to call the credit card center and stop any transaction on that particular credit card. Am I right or i miss out something ?? As for divorce, just hire lawyer to settle it for you.

hi jason. i wonder if u reply to the wrong post and referring to the wron person. thanks anyway. i was just trying to see if there's any way out other thatn filing for divorce.

hi jason. sorry i might sound too unfriendly. thank you for replying my post.

When it comes to family matter, law often is not the best first option.  I am no wiser than you. However, an old fashion way of having of heart-to-heart often come with unexpected results.

In a situation of a partner is spending unwisely and putting the other partner in great difficulty, the obvious and immediate action to do seem to be cancel the credit card.  This is to prevent the problem getting bigger.  I afraid it would not be prudent for not doing so.

If there is anyone that can solve "your fren's" problem basing on your few sentences, I suppose he or she must have ability closer to God.

Don't forget: No presumption. What You Ask Is What You Get!! KIS-Stupid !!

Don't forget: No presumption. What You Ask Is What You Get!! KIS-Stupid !!

Don't forget: No presumption. What You Ask Is What You Get!! KIS-Stupid !!

The posting from Uhypoc is shameful.  Posting three times using foul language is un-Malaysian.  Well, perhaps it is a clear reflection of your family bringing up.  You are showing your frustration in the wrong forum.

thank you all for your advice. looks like other than getting a lawyer there's no other way out. thanks thou.

The previous posting was NOT directed to the Advice-seeker.

Firstly ONLY to: STRANGER and now includes the Stupid GURU.

WYAIWYG -- Stupid is the Best Word and Language to describe you GURU from/by the Old & Modern English Dictionary.

Should you mistook the language or word as foul, you are showing your ignorance and illiteracy in this forum. You should spend more time go somewhere else to learn beter English.

Happy learning.